Mr. Meng, a successful middle-aged businessman, found himself facing significant challenges simultaneously in both his business and personal life, leading him to seek guidance from me.
“Your wealth luck is actually quite strong,” I began after analyzing his situation [using Qi Men Dun Jia], “The money is right there, within reach, but it seems to shift and slip away before you can grasp it. Overall, the outcome indicated in the chart is positive, moving in a good direction, but it’s far too slow. The partnerships and projects you’re considering aren’t quite right yet; the platform isn’t properly structured. Your current platform lacks technical substance, though your potential partners are financially strong. You can eventually profit, but the process will be difficult.”
“Why is this happening?” I continued, “According to principles like Wan Xiang Yi You Lun, Wan Xiang Quan Xi Lun, Wan Xiang Xi Tong Lun, and Wan Xiang Xiang Gan Lun [Note: These are theoretical principles underpinning certain metaphysical analyses, related here to Qi Men Dun Jia insights], your situation is closely related to your physical body and living environment. Firstly, you have a mole on your right upper back. Have it removed between 5 PM and 7 PM. Secondly, the curtains on the west side of your home are often kept closed; open them regularly. Thirdly, the light switch on the west side has issues; get it repaired. By doing this, you’ll clear the obstructing ‘information’ or energy, transforming the inability to cooperate into an ability to cooperate. You’ll then be able to sign the contract with the other party.” I presented the main points concerning Mr. Meng’s situation concisely.
“That’s exactly right,” Mr. Meng confirmed, “What you’ve said perfectly matches my actual circumstances. You’ve articulated everything I wanted to say but couldn’t. When I travel for business and stay in hotels long-term, it’s strange, but the light switches in my rooms often malfunction. I have five or six potential deals in Ordos and Shandong, but I just can’t seem to close them. This current project I’m working on involves connections with high-level figures, yet the negotiations are stalled. I don’t understand why.”
“Follow the adjustments I just outlined, and you’ll see improvements quickly,” I reassured him. “Also, wear a Maitreya Buddha amulet – one that’s large-bellied, bending over, with a round head, and curved lines/patterns. Using this auspicious object acts as a symbolic replacement or ‘energetic shift,’ helping you sign those deals. However, be aware that after wearing it, you might experience a physical reaction like stomach upset or diarrhea. Don’t worry, it’s not an illness; it’s intestinal cleansing, a reaction caused by the energetic adjustment.”
“Okay, I’ll do exactly as you say,” Mr. Meng responded decisively.
“I currently have five potential deals, including one in Ordos worth 500 million RMB for energy-saving equipment. What do you think?” he asked.
“That one is viable,” I confirmed.
“There’s also an 11 million RMB deal with Xinfadi Group. It would be great if I could sign it, but the people below me always seem to resist or create friction. It’s not smooth.”
“Correct,” I agreed. “After making the adjustments, things should proceed more smoothly. You are actually very well-suited for intermediary or brokerage-type businesses.”
“Yes, I get many opportunities like that, but I always struggle to coordinate them effectively.”
“You’ve become somewhat disheartened lately,” I observed, “Feeling weary and less willing to strive.”
“I have a gold-related project. Is it feasible?”
“Based on the broader trends, yes, it’s workable. You can start entering it.”
“Let’s leave the business matters there for now. What about my marriage?” This was another topic of concern for Mr. Meng.
“Your current partner’s heart is elsewhere,” I stated frankly. “You are together in appearance but divided in spirit. She is having an affair.”
“I sensed something was wrong… I just have no way to handle it; my company demands too much of my time. When will my marriage become stable?” Mr. Meng sighed helplessly.
“Stability will likely come in a ‘Mao’ (Rabbit) year. The person involved shares a similar ‘Qi’ or resonance with you. She’ll be tall and slender, with a good figure, articulate, very sensitive, perhaps a bit critical, and may have some heart issues.”
“Okay, I understand now. I don’t want to invest too much energy into this right now; I have too many other things to focus on,” Mr. Meng said, having reached a decision.
Life offers many paths. Some sacrifice everything for truth, some pursue career success above all, some live and die for love, and others prefer a simple, quiet existence.
There is so much to do in life, yet our energy and time are finite. It’s inevitable that we sometimes gain in one area while losing in another. But what is lost at sunrise may be regained at sunset (失之东隅，收之桑榆 – shi zhi dong yu, shou zhi sang yu – a Chinese idiom).
The moon waxes and wanes; people experience joy and sorrow, union and separation – these are eternal laws. We cannot change them, but we can choose how we navigate them.